For guilt and self-blame, when one has been
a victim of some form of abuse or assault,
or has been injured.
(Especially good for women and children).
“It's all my fault.”
“If only I was more attractive, he would not have hit me.”
“If only I had been watching where I was going,
I would not have sprained my ankle.”
To accept one's part in an experience, without self-blame.
A flower essence, made 24 January, 1999,
from the red flowers of a Strawberry Cactus pot plant.
I bought this plant in mid-1996, when it was very tiny,
and had watched it grow larger and larger,
outgrowing its pot several times.
This was the first time that it had flowered,
and it produced three beautiful flowers,
just enough to make an essence.
I knew immediately the plant began to flower
that I would make an essence from it,
and that it would be a trauma essence.
There are still many people in our society,
especially women, who are stuck in the bleak
wilderness of the abusive relationship.
This essence will help them to, when they are ready,
break out of the energy of this,
which in reality is an energy of
Other essences that also come to mind which may sometimes
be of use are
White as Snow,
(the co-dependence Parahebe essence), and for the perpetrator
of violence, the
Spiraea japonica essence comes to mind.
Cleansing and Self-Worth
“I surrender my need to defy my Inner God-Self
and believe that I am imperfect.”